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Gay slang sometimes referred to as gayspeak refers to language used predominantly among gay men and is also linked to Polari. Slang normally arises from the need of a particular subculture to create or maintain secrecy, from a want of acceptance or fear of prejudice, or to describe situations, acts and things not common in the dominant culture.

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A

  • Abigail : A gay nickname for a middle-age gay that is in the closet, or has a conservative approach to love & life
  • Abort : To shit soon after being ass-fucked
  • A-buck a position for anal intercourse: laying with legs thrown over the head in the air exposing the ass-end to the active partner. This position lets one kiss his partner.
  • A-gay : Short for "A-list gay" who is an affluent, well-connected, upwardly mobile gay man
  • Aroma : Poppers and amyl nitrites
  • Assy : bitch, nasty
  • Aunt/Auntie : elderly male homosexual

B

  • Backroom : Darkened room set aside for sex, sometimes group sex, in a gay bar/club or gay sauna
  • Bareback : Unprotected anal sex
  • Bean juice : Liquid found around the anus
  • Bear : Hairy, often overweight, man, frequently with facial hair
  • Beard : Spouse, partner, or date of the opposite sex, with whom the person said to be "wearing beard" is pretending to be involved with to feign heterosexuality
  • belly-fucker : Nnon-penetrative thrusting of the penis agains the body or stomach of the partner until ejaculation
  • Bottom : The receptive partner in anal or other penetrative sex
  • Boy : Passive-person (slave) in a BDSM-scene, also spelled boi
  • Bull : Large (very muscular or overweight), dominant man who exhibits hypermasculinized traits in build, aggressiveness and crudeness

C

  • Call Boy : Hustler - a male prostitute
  • Chicken : Anyone who is under the legal age of consent- young gays
  • Circle Jerk : Group masturbation or jerking off
  • Clear : Exclusively homosexual
  • Cottage : Public toilet, not used much today except by older men - cottaging = dogging
  • Cross Dressing : Dressing in clothing that is traditionally assigned to the opposite gender
  • Cruise : Drive slowly on the streets, walk about in bars, parks, etc lookig for a sex parter
  • Cub : A younger bear
  • Cut : Circumcised
  • Cum : Semen or any fluid secreted at orgasm

D

  • Daddy : Older man who shows affection for his male lover with gifts
  • Dogging : Having sex with strangers in a public place
  • Drag : Dressed in a way usually identified with the opposite sex

E

  • Eurofag : A younger, trendy Continental European male

F

  • Facial : To come over the face
  • Fag Hag : Female who enjoys hanging out with gay men
  • Felching : The act of analingus, usually after an in-rectal ejaculation
  • Flaming : Very outwardly gay male who displays stereotypical gay behaviors
  • FuckBuddy : A person with whom a relationship is primarily sexual

G

  • Gaydar : The ability to detect another person's homosexuality by observing behavior
  • Gift : Sexually transmitted disease
  • Glory Hole : Hole carved in the partition between stalls in a toilet used for sexual liaisons
  • Greek : Anal sex

H

  • Homoflexible : Bisexual with a homosexual dominance

I

J

  • Jock : US derived term meaning young gay college boy
  • Jockey : The insertive partner in the act of anal or oral sex

K

L

M

  • Mangina : The anus of a gay man who bottoms in anal sex
  • Mantique : Term sometimes used to refer to an attractive gay man over the age of 50

N

  • Natural : Having an uncircumcized penis or having unprotected sex

O

  • Otter : A skinny man who is into bears
  • Out : Open about one's sexual orientation to the general population

P

  • Package : The bulge in a man's clothing caused by his penis and testicles
  • Pig : Gay male with very few sexual inhibitions
  • Pitcher : Insertive partner in anal sex or the dominant partner
  • Polar Bear : A bear, but with gray body and facial hair
  • Pre-Op : A transsexual person who has not had surgery but intends to eventually

Q

  • Queen : Effeminate gay man, extreme is a drag queen

R

  • Raw : Unprotected anal sex
  • Rent Boy : Male prostitute
  • Rimming : Licking the anus of a sex partner

S

  • S&M : Sadism & masochism enthusiasts derive part of their pleasure from inflicting pain
  • Seed : For a man to ejaculate inside another, especially anally
  • Shrimping : Toe-sucking
  • Snowball : Spitting the cum back into the mouth of the person who ejaculated it
  • Shemale : Pronounced shay-ma-lay - a she-male or transgendered male-to-female

T

  • Top : The insertive partner in anal or other penetrative sex
  • Tossed Salad : Anilingus and rimming
  • Transsexual : Person who establishes a permanent identity of the opposite gender to their assigned sex
  • Tranny/Trannie : Transgender or transsexual person
  • Twink : Young-looking man/boy who's slender, clean cut & without facial/body hair

U

  • Uncut : Uncircumsied

V

  • Vanilla : Relatively conventional forms of sexual activity, usually contrast to S&M sex
  • Versitile : A person who will take either top or bottom positions in sex

W

  • Wank-Buddy : Gay male relationship for the sole purpose of mutual masturbation
  • Wolf : An attractive man who is not a bear, primarily among bears

X

  • Xobile : The act of transmitting or receiving adult content over wireless devices

Y

  • Yestergay : Person who identified as gay in the past, but supposidly who no longer does so

Z

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